I've tried the back door entry many times, with my husband who loves it! I hate it. It may sound horrible when I tell you that I use Butt Sex for gifts. It hurts, so I might as well get some jewlery or cash out of it. Also I only let him have it about 4 times a year. Women who give in to every command/want from there signigant other is stupid. You will start to boar them and they will want to move on to something/someone else (Most likely behind your back...How ironic).