You are, of course, entitled to your opionion, but don't go trying to scare away individuals who are willing to explore another avenue of their relationship with their partners. Anal sex, when done correctly and with time and care, is the most intimate, rewarding and pleasurable experience that can be had. Just because you may have a difficult time with the concept, doesn't mean you should try to spoil it for the rest of us. Speaking as a woman, I LOVE IT! And maybe you should try some more research on the subject. There are alot of myths undone on the subject. Just a suggestion. Have a good day!