You can stick fingers, bananas, cucumbers, vibrators, whatever into a hole not designed for upthrust and you get what's cummin to you (pardon the pun). Pain. Now, if it were me, I'd not let my husband ram his ballbat up my shoot...I know that's a way-out concept, but if this selfish SOB JUST HAS TO DELIVER THE GOODS, then maybe...JUST MAYBE...this is a selfish SOB who doesn't deserve you bending over backwards (literallyl) to satisfy his anal pleasures. Just something to think about. Some of you women, at some time in your life, have to say "enough is enough". Guys who crave anal sex, generally speaking, are freaks and don't deserve any more sexual attention from decent women. Submissive females give in. Plenty out there. Vaginas are for penal entry, not anal orafices. Basic anatomy 101. Plenty of freaks on CZ that will tell you otherwise, but trust me on this one, as a doctor's son who's been through all the anatomy classes at college...stay away from anal or you'll be sorry later on down the hershey highway.