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Re: 25 year old male virgin and feeling hopeless
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Re: 25 year old male virgin and feeling hopeless

You see it's really hard to say why I freeze up.

I would assume much like the source of most of my problems socially it comes back to a couple of things.

One: Shyness
Two: lack of confidence/self esteem

I'm hoping that the counciling I'm going to will help on both fronts, though it's only the start. Have an extreme extreme fear of recjection as well.

My buddies have the right idea when it comes to rejection, they simply move on to the next girl realizing there are more than enough of them out there....

I on the other hand tend to see it as being yet another negative reflection on myself. I think fair or not that if one girl rejects me, the next one will do the same and on and on. To be fair I have been told by one of my (few) ex's that confidence is in fact the only thing I lack.. and if I could get over that I would be a great catch for someone someday.

I just don't know if confidence is something that can be flipped on like a switch though.. either you have it..or you don't.... and I clearly fit into the don't category.

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