Listen up, Virgin...never accept that "you're not good enough"...NEVER! The reason that you never have been laid is two-fold: the right woman hasn't crossed your path, and second, you don't have the confidence to get laid. It takes both. Get your physical self in shape. Get your mental self in shape. Stand up straight and tall. You're a young guy with a lot to offer, including an untested stiffie, so stop belittleing your strengths. Losers do that and from this day forth...you ain't one of 'em. Meet women where they are. Work, gym, school. Where are the women in your age range? Find them and put the pride or shyness or whatever you have working on the shelf and mingle. There's a woman out there that wants you in her pants. Guaranteed. She's out there. You're on the hunt and once you find her, chances are, she's already been laid a couple hundred times. Fine. NO problem. Let her guide you through the encounter. Many a woman will find this just to hot to hold back and rip your SpongeBob briefs off once they find out. Roll with the punches rather than making it a negative. Play "teacher and student". She's the teach, you're the college freshman with a hard-on. You'll be cumming before you know it. We all were'nt born "multiple orgasm performers" right out off the rack. Somebody had to show us the money! You talk about somebody starting off slowly! I had plenty of dates but in the early years couldn't find a hottie's clit if it stood up and slapped me in the face! If she wants her cat licked, lick it the way she wants. Stay with it until she wakes up the neighbors with her moans. If she wants loin-pounding grinds, grind her into the next floor. If she wants to swallow your virin spunk, down the hatch darling! Whatever...just stay away from anal. Trust me on this. Go get 'em, Tiger!!