don't feel bad. I'm 34 and have never been in a serious relationship. How do you think that makes me feel? Pretty abnormal. I understand that you really want to experience sex. I hope that you get your chance soon. Some people suggest concentrating on other things like hobbies, friends, church etc, etc. These people seem to miss the point; you want to experience sex with a woman. This is a very normal thing to want to have. Sex can be a very pleasurable experience but a lot of the time it's not all that great. At any rate, I think your best bet is to have some good friends take you out on the town and try to hook you up with attractive, good people who find you interesting enough to get that close with. What do you feel about online dating as a start?