No, you are not wrong to ask but personally I can tell you that I can't give Blow jobs or Head what ever you want to call it. My mouth won't open up enough and I bite and hurt instead of giving pleasure and the stuff that comes out is sicking. My jaw has been broken 3 times. The sperm makes a woman have hair grow on her face like a man. Male hormones will do that. Are you willing to pay to have it lazered off. I have 3 friends that have to shave like a man twice a day and now their husbands are complaining about their hairy faces. Can't please every body. If you do not get pleasure from giving oral sex then stop. simply put wait for her to ask. Since I can't , I don't expect my husband to but he just loves giving oral sex and really gets off on it. If you don't feel this way then don't do it. Do only what give both of you pleasure. Use her hands or your hands.