I have bought my wife several "toys" to spice things up. She was very hesitant at first for me to use them but she "warmed" up to them real fast. I would have to admit that she has had more powerful cums and cllmaxes using the toys. Does that bother me? Not at all. I am into pleasing my wife sexually and if that means using a toy from time to time then I am all for it. Besides it is very sexy to me to watch her reach a cllmax. She has used them by herself also...but not with me around. She claims that is "too personal" to do in front of me. One of my ultimate fantasies is to be able to watch her please herself. Maybe one day.......