Oh brother. I LOOKED at those magazines. They are so phony looking it's not even a question. YES I firmly believe that there is a difference between him watching people have sex on the internet on some sketchy website, god knows what the ages are of those people, than some published magazine with some over makeuped naked women in some vaguely provacative poses. Good grief, sittin' on the toilet and glancing at a magaizine is a LOT different than jacking off to some p 0 r no on the net. My imagination is waaaaaay over zealous, I had no excuse to let get away like that. Let that be all with this mistake of mine. Oh as for self-gratification, ya, it turns me on when he lets me know he spank the monkeyd that day, you know why? Because he looks at some pictures he took of me to turn him on. He rarely does anyways, we have an active sex life of about 5-7 times per week.