thinkin about how great this feels, enjoying being able to relax at the same time. I like watching everything that she does, I find that it turns me on quite a bit (us visual men haha). At the same time though, its fun when I've got a blindfold on cuz I DON'T know whats coming next and the surprises are just as big-a turnons :).
When my gf has a smile (of course it isn't possible to smile ALL the time hehe) I feel better. I didn't ask for a bj for a looooong time. I didn't like it because it is onesided on who gets pleasured. I stopped feeling bad when I discovered that she actually enjoyed doing that for me. so.. a smile makes me happy and reassures me that I am not taking advantage of her willingness to please me :)... but thats just me :)