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Re: My fiance refuses to give me oral
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Published: 14 years ago
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Re: My fiance refuses to give me oral

I agree. He is being selfish to the extreme, but it also is a way of withholding. He is a withholder, in affection, emotions and giving pleasure. The same way he is unable to say "I love you" or call me sweet names (dear, honey, sweetie, whatever). When I told him I would like to hear these things he said he didn't feel them. He lets any little resentment stop him from giving. He also doesn't give gifts, flowers, etc. So it is all a part of a psychological problem, and also upbringing. He was brought up by old parents in a very uneducated rigid catholic family. He was probbaly taught sex is dirty, especially the genitals.
I have regular gynecological examinations and I have no kind of infection or anything else. When I shower, like anyone else, I smell wonderful (like a flower :)). Also, in my first marriage I got a lot of oral sex!! And I loved it. It's a shame terminating a relationship because of one aspect of sex, but it is very frustrating. Maybe I should get a lover only for that....
So, it's his problem. His issue. I tried everything. Raspberry gels, nice conversation......I give up.

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