Ev
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19 years ago
To Wait or not to Wait...
Wait, always wait! Don't let anyone ever talk you out of waiting...sex with the "mr. right" can obviously be very enjoyable, but sex with the "mr. wrong" can scar you....so I say wait until you are absolutely sure, and to be absolutely sure it is usally wise to wait till after the wedding, besides it is the most precious gift you can give your husband.
Here's my thoughts on your boyfriend {bf}, why care about his past? It is really a waste of time, I always figure if it was so great with another person, or at another time, then he'd still be there....
Unless his past gives you cause for concern, if I was you, I'd just not worry about it and train myself to not think about it. I have been there also, I used to concern myself with my bf'ssss past but then I figured {sort of like an epiphany} that it was a waste of my time and concern. And adopted the attitude {responsibly of course} of "Who Cares?" Because, it is the past you can't do anything at all to change it, and besides most men don't compare if they do then they aren't worth it!
blessings to you, and remember always wait! It is the better option....