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RE PRE MARITAL SEX........SOME BACKGROUND INFO...but today it's academic, sad to say..
 
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RE PRE MARITAL SEX........SOME BACKGROUND INFO...but today it's academic, sad to say..


It's a sure sign of the destructive times that such a question...a good one........would even be asked.

In the ideal world of long ago, boys and girls were brought up to be very mature by the age of marriage.

By this I mean in a physical, mental, spiritual (the most important), and practical.

They were taught by strong parents who , in their own natural way, exhibited the qualities and characteristics of their sex.

Men were men.

Women were women

And no, we are not speaking of that 90 percent of the world that operated outside of the laws of GOD, for they were no different then than what we see outside our window today, in the Post Christian era.

No, properly speaking, a man was taught to be a man first, not a wimp.

And that meant also that he was taught to love, respect and protect women, etc.

Respect for the individuality of the sexes is paramount to understand the reason for the beautiful (or should be) expression of the TOTAL LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP expression of sexuality. For it is readily apparent to ANY REAL man, who loves without guile or deceit, and any REAL woman, who loves with all that she has, being created by GOD to respond to total love first initiated by a real man, that sex truly is the frosting of a mature love already in place, and becomes more beautiful with time..and practice WITH EACH OTHER.

Once that response was created, then of course a cycle of love has been created, and it no longer matters who initiates the love of the moment, for a man knows that a woman has a MUCH greater power of pleasure than any guy who ever lived.

They are, when loved properly, like a volcano, as the ancient Chinese used as an illustration of a loved woman.

Indeed, any man who has given his love, true love, to a woman WITH WHOM HE FIRST BUILT A ROCK SOLID FRIENDSHIP without sex, and continues through the decades to love and understand and help and create new pleasures for her through imagination, will find that indeed, he sleeps with a volcano, but by like token, there is no giver on earth like a woman who KNOWS she is loved, and that man will experience as great a pleasure as is possible for HIM, because he first initiated, then gave all he had , with respect and tenderness.

So, given these circumstances, the original intent was to protect this beautiful and soul soaring experience by keeping each of the bodies clean and with no other experience, thereby further enhancing the miracle and magic of sex with that one person in the world with whom you have shared a clean and untainted body.

That is the ideal, and that is the way it was...not THAT long ago, for “shacking up” was looked upon as a sin, for indeed it is a sin in the eyes of GOD.

But this is the post Christian era, when our nation is no longer standing on rock solid principles in ANYTHING, much less the fundamental need for the preservation of a loving and pure family.

No indeed, we are in the Jerry Springer age, where, had he done the things that he allows on that “show” fifty years ago, he would have been prosecuted, and/or ran out of town.

Disgust is too mild a word for the degradation of the female and the utterly horrible things that are common place today.

Women especially are the losers, despite what some “feminists” (read ANTI feminists) try to convince us of.

So much for the rant.

To save your self for sex today requires that you must be very very mature in order to choose the right person.

To sleep around is to cheapen what was meant to be something that only two people would/could share.

Many will laugh at this, but many also will join in the screaming mob, while secretly wishing with all their heart that they had waited.

BUT YOU MUST BE MATURE, EACH OF YOU, AND FEW THERE ARE WHO MEET THAT QUALIFICATION IN THIS AGE.

PS..Despite what "Dew" has said below, the PRACTICE comes from practicing with the one whose friendship and compatibility...THAT YOU BUILT BEFORE SEX........was the one that you wanted to be with. Hence, two incredible friends, who are mature in all things , will seek to enhance the experience of the other. THAT IS THE NATURE OF TRUE LOVE.

Again, mostly academic, for in this age of instant screw, which the enemies of civilization have carefully nurtured over the years, it's easy to scream "Old Fashioned" "Out of Date" and all of that crap.

Over the centuries , these maturing and protecting principles have borne out the necessity for their existence.

But sadly, inertia will always propel a nation right down the tubes, even though a few people raise the specter of error.
 

 
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