I personally don't think saving oneself for marriage is the way to go unless the person really wanted to do that. There may be people who desire a perfect or harmonious marriage as a result of being celibate beforehand but that has proven to not be the case. Just because one may have been a virgin before marriage doesn't guarantee a good relationship, just like being a whore before marriage necessitate a broken relationship. It all boils down to what the person feels comfortable with.