It wasn't my intention to insult you. I'm sorry for that. Have you ever listened sometimes to people talk about negative exps they've had and they use insulting type language because there's some anger there?
I use the word "boy" not to insult you but out of anger for the very negative exp. I had with a younger guy a couple of years ago.
Some of it was my fault, because at my age I should have known better. But I couldn't help but be bitter about it because of the bad memory it left me with.
Of course this is not your fault, and I apologize again.