About your first dream;
The man who is over you has his mouth stitched. Is there any aspect in your life where you feel your mouth like that? Something you canīt talk about or something you are afraid to say????
Is there a certain voice in you, which you donīt allow to express and you have stitched its mouth not to listen to it. For example your selfish self or any aspect of your personality?
Your not afraid of this part of you, but you say "get a life".
It might need your help to get a life......
Interesting dream..........Hope I had helped Marylo