thanks to all of you / reply
hi. Thank you so much for all your well wishes.
Ihave no doubt that it has helped me greatly.
I have received excellent advice from a laywer that
is working with me on a scale fee basis..
and am taking the necessary steps .
It has been a hard time.. since I have always taken
care of paying my own way and repaying debts etc.
and I have never been one to consider this format.
but in light of how the whoel mess was acrrued/
not by my over spendign but by my helping soemoen else out
and then they themsleves not beign able to repay me..
in my heart.. i know i am responsible. i still mad ethe decision
to do tthat.
and I myself need to get over the *feel like a bum * thing.
with this debt on me that i never woudl have created on my own.
it has turned out to be a good thing.
for many others.
it helpe da guy out that almost los this custody of his kids
and now it will be wiped out and he is solvne t again to maintaining
his personal life.
it will enable me to reimburse back soem each month to my ex
that he ahs paid extra to help me out/
which in turn will giv ehim more to help my daughter get her
braces (for health reasons , no tcosmetic) while she is still
eligible for another yea ron his dental.. so it will help cover his deductable.
and it will free me up of haivng a bi tof extra to maybe be ble to
get fatehr in leanrign to make jwlery etc/ and hoep fully be able to
get some extra incoem here doign somethign i enjoy 8)
and also to have soem spare $ to ge tmy plumbign fixed and maybe by next witner
get soem heat in here !! *smile*
so i thank allo fyou for your thoguhts and i know it has helpe dme
keep a positive attitude and now i just hav eto grit my teeth
and face the public *smile *
oh yes and it will help anothere guy that is out of work !
sinc ei woudl ahv eto calla cab anyhow... inssstea d he will driv eme around
and i will payhim.. and so it will help brign about a lto of good thigns
for ltos of otehr follks than just me 8)
sorry so logn and i knwothis is totaly off topic for this forum but i thought
i should post it here in reply to your thoguthful offers of editing etc.
i am ok if i take the time to use my notepad.. just takes me longer.
and itis soemthing i need to discipline my self to do anyhow.. so ,
i greatly appreciate the offers, but it also helps my thinking processes
to rebuild when i take it by the reins and spend the time respelling etc.
brain stimulation *smilE*
well thansk again!!
off to get a shower since i need ot get out in this knee high snow lol !
and get to the bank 8)
BRRRRRRR
Ami Joi Benton.