Really don't want to keep prolonging this stuff if others want it over, but guess it's just a little hard for me to understand.. I'm fairly new to these forums.
When I visit a smorgasbord, I look at everything offered, pick what I like, pay for it and go to my table and eat it. I don't much bother with what the guy behind me is eating, it's after all... his own stomach. If he should start to suggest his high fat diet is better for me, I'd just say: "Thanks, but no thanks!", and that's the end of it. Just a thought. Honest.
I do appreciate the wit and skills of many of the posters here, though. I think it's great!