Your church and pastor sound wonderful Donna. It is so difficult these days to find a loving congregation that teaches the Word of God correctly. I'm personally very fond of Baptists and have my daughter in a Baptist school. The problem arises when God is doing a major thing in your life which requires that you walk in faith. Will those around you be able to support you in your growth, or will they cause you to doubt?
Certainly it doesn't sound like your pastor and church are rigid cessationists, ones that would say that your miracle couldn't possibly come from God because miracles ceased with Jesus' ministry on earth. And yes, there are many places that would say that, I've encountered them personally.
You really seem to be on the right track Donna, and I see that you are doing everything by prayer. It is the Lord who gives us the will as well as the ability to carry out His desires.
Perhaps you don't need to just take off from your beloved church and brethren, but you could start going to a Spirit filled prayer group where you can get the support with your new level of revelation. And you never know, the Lord may just be priming you to use you in setting a congregation on fire!!!!!!!