how can i get my husband to stop smoking cannabis??ive been with him 12 yrs and have tried he did stop for 1 yr but recently went back onit he says hes stressed,ive told him that it makes stress worse and Depression but he doesnt listen,i can live like this as my daughter also has medical problems so i feel ive no life sort him out then her and it just goes on and on.no time to think about me.he gets moody the next day and looks really derpressed its probably the come down..i cant spend the rest of my living days just to be helping them please help.