I wasnt' trying to make anyone hurt. If they are secure in their lifestyle and they don't feel they are wrong then they shouldn't hurt. ya know? But if they arent' sure they should seek out the truth for themselves.If it hurt me I would ask why! They think people can't except them they way they are. People don't have to agree with everything you do to accept you. I love my daughter and ya know she does alot of stuff I don't approve of but she knows I love in spite of it but I do discipline her because she needs guidelines or boundaries. I do that cause I love her. God is no different really in that way!! He gives his word as the guideline and boundaries but just like my daughter we have to choose to follow it or not. Sometimes she does and sometimes she gets off the path and wanders like a lost sheep but I still love her and God is the same way toward us in all our stupidity!