I forgot to say that I do realize lending information to those we love is a gift and that it's like planting a seed. One day the seed of information might sprout into something of benefit. It's got to be on their terms and they wake up when the info is meaningful.
I remember the first time I picked up a book on candida. I said, "No that's not me." I remember exactly what I thought. "That's such a whole huge thing to take care of. I don't want to do THAT. Too much trouble." Many months later I went back and picked up the same book and bought it because of my desperation.
The sad part is, some people die because they don't want to take care of themselves..... take the responsibility. But at least we know we offered the infomation and planted seeds.