Sounds to me like your Mr Wonderful is the one that gets your juices going-
If you settled down with what is acceptable
and there is no juice you would eventually leave
of become stale- or cheat
If you combine your energy with the juice from the bad boy
then maybe you can offer some halfway point
that is good for both of you
I'd go for what feels good in your soul
Unless he has some other problem - like sleeping with every woman he comes into contact with
or?
You name it
In the end do not let society dicate-it is settling
and so who says you have todecide now?