Wow, bartending, I imagine the cleanse will be even MORE empowering if you can resist through all that hubbub. Master Cleanse lemon or limeade in a martini glass, shaken not stirred might look rather appealing during your time there...and the sipping would look authentic!
Good luck on your solo flight into your gut-healing adventure.
Keep notes to share with your sweetie and perhaps she will be encouraged and try doing it one day a week and work up to a longer fast.