Please do not reduce God to the level of a wife, husband, or children. Humans are not worthy of worship. God is. God has provided worship as a beautiful experience in our relationship with Him. It is exciting to think that God would reach out to me. It is exciting to know that God wants intimacy with me. God is perfect, holy, awesome and mighty to the point that we humans can't comprehend these things. If you could comprehend this you would see it. I see it, but no human can comprehend the awesomeness of God. I'm not going to argue with you over it. Just know that I agree to disagree with you. You have a right to your own beliefs.