“There are basically two types of people you will encounter in the dating world:
1) those who are comfortable and happy being single and unattached, and
2) those who are insecure & don’t like being alone.
People who are comfortable and happy being single don’t need other people for validation or a security blanket. They don’t lead people on and have a healthy enough self esteem that they end relationships when it is time for them to end, instead of trying to line up a replacement before a breakup.
Those who are insecure & don’t like being alone never end a relationship unless they have at least one or even several potential backup lovers on the side.
By understanding this dynamic, you can save yourself a lot of unnecessary drama, suffering and heartbreak by being very clear that you will only date or become involved with new lovers who have completely ended their relationships with other people before starting new ones.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne