You are welcome. I like to give when the Spirit moves me. If someone forces me to do something the Spirit does not initiate then there can be lack of joy in serving.
However, there are times I think that putting one's self in a burden situation is necessary for the sake of another...don't you think? I would like to think you would try and pull me out of a burning car if you thought there was a possibility that you could. I doubt you would be cheerful doing so, but in the end we would both think it was the spirit of kindness and love that motivated you past your fears or grudge.
I also wanted you to know that I read what you wrote about the old bible.