You do have a history of things that are allergy related, and especially related to allergy that shows its face on thelips:
- clear retainers
- trumpet player
Now, if on top of all of this, your mother was a user of Antibiotics and artificial hormones (like birth prevention or corticosteroids) and if you as a child were ever exposed to Antibiotics , you do have a perfect storm of factors that are needed for developing multiple allergies.
The fact you react to alcohol and acids is a strong sign of Histamine Intolerance and DAO deficiency.
Another factor pointing toward allergies and hypersensitivity to things like food or anything your mouth comes in contact with.