you mean brain washing? mind control? psychology?
if they are pursuing happiness the healing crisis is not necessary and a form of abuse and torture.
the problem is when you try to force people back into reality, it is too painful and can cause psychosis which is not good for anyone.
tough love is not real love, never fight fire with fire, violence begets violence, allow people to be coddled with mercy for the non created god's sake, who suffered so we didn't have too.
2 Corinthians 5:15
And that he died for all, that they which live should not henceforth live unto themselves, but unto him which died for them, and rose again.
Isaiah 53:4
Surely he took up our pain and bore our suffering, yet we considered him punished by God, stricken by him, and afflicted.