I agree Rainy. Thank you again for the kind words of encouragement, I know you felt like BeenThere was being unkind to me and it may have surprised you, but I knew what I was walking into. It's not the first time he has used such wording with me or anyone else. I forgive him.
I hope you and vektek will also forgive one another...not because we are stating that we agree with each other's doctrine, but that we want to preserve the Spirit of the Lord between us. We each heal at different rates when our hearts have been hurt. I even thought the "C" word was our new joke about our old hurts that we had worked through and apparently I was wrong for thinking we had both worked through this. Specially since she used that term as well when writing to each other. I felt like I was misrepresented tonight by vektek as she explained her thoughts about our history together in debating. I was rather surprised she said what she did. If that's what she thinks...then that's what she think. It's just funny how her memory is bad for the "C" word, but not for your assessment of her beliefs. Strange how that works sometimes. I forgive her and hope tomorrow is a better day.