Why would my beautiful daughter Marry a man like this ... And then go on to have three kids he is a narcissist sociopaths he devoured my daughter self-esteem and He is now moved on and doing it to his children she's left him and is living here with us my husband And I but there has been so much damage to these kids already I don't know how to deal with my grandkids anymore ! When I used to go to my daughters house to help and visit I was more like the happy go lucky grandma who played with them but now that they are living here I understand what my daughter was trying to tell me that the minute I leave they all start acting bad and I can only associate it with the way my son in law treats my daughter I front of them they have no respect for her because of him and no that she is not there to monitor what goes on at his house when he had the kids it's really difficult to understand why the come back so different ! This morning he was supposed to pick the kids up at 12 normally he's late we asked if we could have them a 1:3 more to take them out for beackfast of course he made it a huge issue on the phone but we took the kids out anyway cause technically he could have six but my daughter dor t want any trouble ! Well he came storming into the restaurant and pointed his finger at the kids and said you guys have 10 min you hear! They all stopped eating with Such terror on there faces all of them Look scared this broke my heart they are small to deal with this 8,7,5 the 5 yr old girl is taking it the worst ! I don't know what I can do to help my daughter and here kids ?