This is my family too. I divorced after a 24 year marriage and it was like a chocalite morsel to the deprived. They loved adding to my pain and stirring up drama. I actually moved away and for my own healing, stayed away from all of them. Of course, they made up all sorts of juicy reasons why (none true). It took several years to see from a distance how much stress they added to my life. All mine are "good church going southern baptists" ..... My faith is me and my Bible, a group of ladies I study with, a few Christian radio programs and that's all. Still healing from the damage of my narcissistic family.