I have a BIG PROBLEM with what's doing, sweetheart. Seems like he wants you to quit the job you love, move to him, sign papers pro-him, etc. Not buy'in what he's sell'in. Don't you buy that manure meant for a farmer's field either. This is a doomed relationship from the start. Look at how much time and effort he's putting into THE DEMISE OF THE RELATIONSHIP? Makes you think, doesn't it? So what if he chose poorly last time around, sounds like the prenup didn't protect him then as well. You are from another land and this is risky business, babe. Risky. If it were me, I'd run like the wind. When I counsel women on how men act and the red flags that are waving in their face...this is a red flag waving in your face. You need to heed my warning, don't change up your life for this guy, and move on. Stewardesses are hot and attract all sorts of decent fellows. YOu won't be devoid of male company, I'm sure.
You've got to be a strong type woman to use my advice because I tell women they have to change how they think about men. I'm a guy, I know how we think. He's divorced already, probably not a good sign, and you're young, never been married. You're falling for his ploys, like many have done before, and you'll probably be divorce #2 in ten years time if the probabilities are correct. And the fact that he has an aggressive ex-wife and kids...you don't need that, trust me, been there done that with my folks...it's a disaster most of the time. YOu won't change him, don't think you can. Good times are what they are...good times. Good memories, he's counting on those good times overwhelming your common sense and gut feelings about signing this document. "Cohabitation Agreement"? lol...please...be strong, stand up straight and tall, make me proud and don't fall for his bilge.