Really? I read a post of yours that said you started this group to help others see there are others out there.
There's no personal conflict except that I said I wasn't here for your advice. It became a conflict when you took that personally.
I'm not here to feel like a victim. I'm not here to be judged. I'm not here to read another email response that starts with judgements then goes to ask a moderator to remove my story because what turns out to not be a moderator (my mistake, I admit it, butit was an understandable one considering the authority you give yourself).
I hope the moderator doesn't remove my story. Because I think any target of an abuser on here would agree with me in saying we've all had enough of people trying to erase our experiences, our hopes, our journeys.
I deserve to be heard just as much as you, dear one.
And I deserved the peace I gave myself by just skimming the above response from you. It was the boundary I set for me, not you. To not putyself through another round of shaming by you.
When I'm ready to talk about the present issue on here, I will move forward with that on here, but I can't say it has set up a safe environment.
Thank you to those who spoke from a place of understanding and compassion. Who showed I'm not the only one who is dealing with this. That was far and away a good feeling. What I needed in this present.