Let's get this cleared up very quickly. There is no such thing as "Spirits". Capital "S" refers to the Holy Spirit. There is a difference between quenching the Holy Spirit and quenching any other spirit (small "s")
You went to so much trouble to write all of that but it does not make sense. We do want to quench the small "s" spirits don't you agree? We don't want to quench the capital "S" Holy Spirit.