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Re: Hello


I've been through that too. If you notice, it feels good to cry. Those tears are tears of sorrow (sorrow that things are the way they are and that you don't have someone close right now to share your life with). If a person can FEEL sorrow, that means they can feel love. There have been studies done on babies in orphanages, if they are neglected and not held or nursed with care, they will become unhealthy and die. The Depression you are feeling does not mean that you are mentally unbalanced, it is a natural reaction for the human being to be depressed about not being able to "vent" (show) love. Love defines us as a human being. Not being able to vent our love is dehumanizing in the most serious sense, and it HURTS. You may not feel ready for the dating scene, but venting your love can be done by just having a CONFIDANT (a close friend that you can share personal thoughts with, not just any friend, but, someone you can trust. We can share with you, but not the same as a personal friend. In a way, we can share with you in a better way because you can remain anonymous and won't be self-conscious, and when you gain confidence in expressing yourself, you'll be able to make friends easier. It's only a matter of time.
 

 
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