Re: Fighting the Archons:day 4 of no ejaculation
The best way to become a better lover is to become a better masturbator, unless you are addicted to the pleasure the accompanies the squirt, and you are doing it so often you are diminishing your sexual power so that having sex becomes a chore for your lover, because it is impacting your energy levels. In a case like that, you are also hurting yourself because you are likely to be less productive in general.
I am inclined to agree with western medical doctors about self-gratification. They say it is important to clean out the pipes regularly in order to keep the genitalia functioning properly. Unless you are a seasoned practitioner of meditation and you have consciously trained your nervous system to convert sexual energy into spiritual energy, you are more likely to be developing congestive prostatitis than cultivating and harvesting relics by the practice of abstinence.
Relics are the diamonds that form in the gonads of the most highly developed spiritual leaders, which devotees look for in their ashes. They are considered the most precious of all spiritual relics and kept in the most holy of holy places. Only the highest spiritual leaders are allowed to be in their presence. They sparkle like diamonds and being near them feels calming and soothing like being in the presence of the guru or priest who died. They are considered to be the source of a religions power and authority. In my sexology practice, I do not recommend complete and total abstinence for anyone who is not starting a religion. In order to form a complete and genuine relic, one must begin the process early, prior to puberty and before ever ejaculating. All the seed ever developed must be retained.
But I commend you for your attention to the matter. Some people have no interest whatsoever. Ejaculating less frequently is the best way to extend your sex life for many years. Total abstinence, however, is pointless to the extent of being detrimental for most people. Instead, I recommend conscientious self-gratification, which is a great way to prepare yourself for more satisfying sexual relations, and (ultimately) marriage. There are some wonderful books about this. Cultivating Male Sexual Energy and How to Make Love all Night Long and Drive a Woman Wild are a couple that come to mind.