Gotta be real...
Before I married my wife, we were best friends (ages 16-17) and we were just friends. And being how it is I felt perfectly comfortable around her, I told her my thoughts on marriage and how it goes in my mind. And one thing I could not ever stand for is a 50/50 split. It CANNOT work. Somebody must assume leadership. But yet, I was the dude beating other fools up in my younger days for disrespecting the girls, and this may sound like disrespect, but it's not. I could go on, but I wonder how many women know they're with a boy who's weaker than they are. Who would NEVER put his LIFE on the line for them, and so therefore they must be THE strong one?? Has my wife ever been THE strong one?? Of course!! We're partners. But what if in one of my weak moments she or our children were threatened?? Well, you can't stop the rain. Can I ever be "soft" and let her take control of the areas that God had given her to be in charge of?? Yes!! But most men I know are a show of BIG. Just like the girls. BIG!! BIG THIS!! BIG THAT!! BIG THESE!! BIGGER IS BETTER!! All mislead. All signs of the end. Go look at a big magazine rack and see what they're selling to our young boys and girls.
"Let a woman be a woman, and a man, be a man"
-Prince
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