That was a great letter you wrote regarding the marble theory!
Maybe you should write a book about it. I am in the same situation as you. I am the youngest of 5 children and my mother said she was sick when she had me. I have also been in few accidents and I have been to every kind of Dr and have done every kind of alternative therapy there is.I have spent over $30k on getting better in the past 10 years. The reason we get sick and other people don't is because are immune system isn't as strong as theirs. I don't take prescription drugs. I tried them and couldn't handle the side effects. I just deal with my life and try to stay positive and eat right and exercise. There are two things that I tried this year that helped me a lot. Go to this web site http://www.stresscenter.com/mainframe2.asp
and try there tapes. They let you try them for free for 30 days. They helped me a lot. Also try to find a practitioner that uses the QXCI. you can learn more about it here http://www.braintuner.com/quantum.htm
Or just enter qxci in a search engine. This biofeedback device has helped me more that anything else I have done and I believe me I have done everything out there. I don't believe I will ever be perfect but will have to work on being healthy for the rest of my life, but at least now I am more able to deal with it , I feel so much better and things don't effect me as much. We live in a very stressful and fast world today. A lot faster than when I grew up. Just take one day at a time. Goodluck!