The urgency and intensity of having sexua| intercourse with men who refrain from playing with yourself, spanking the monkey makes the experience extremely unpleasant. If it is too dirty for them to touch and handle and love, why would I want to do the dirty work for them? Yuck. I prefer making love with someone who isn't ashamed to make love to himself.
Refraining from self-gratification fosters unhealthy dependence on a lover. If you are married to someone who never spank the monkeys, he isn't going to like it if you need to go on a business trip for a month.
It is impossible to overcome premature ejaculation without doing some self-gratification exercises.
Men who are deprived and hungry for sex are the worst lovers, in my humble experience.