Re: self-gratification; regarding Health Effects
On the other hand, I have personally known men with inflamed testicles that were red and swollen, with engorged purple bulging veins from NOT playing with yourself, spanking the monkey enough.
Refraining completely from ejaculation is just as unhealthy as excessive self-gratification. Releasing semen when the body needs release is just as important as urinating or having a bowel movement.
Imagine what would happen to your bladder and rectum if you decided that peeing and pooping was immoral and you were never going to do it...
Sexual repression is what causes lust. Until the naturalness of sex is accepted, nobody is going to be able to love anybody, because lust will undermine the possibility of making true love. The best way to become a better lover is to become a better masturbator. playing with yourself, spanking the monkey excessively is not better self-gratification. Better self-gratification is the result of pacing yourself and releasing when the timing is right to maximize pleasure. That is why it is important for people's biorhythms to match. If you are on a 36 hour cycle and your lover is on a 72 hour cycle, it will be much harder to coordinate a mutual simultaneous orgasm, which is the key to liberation from sexua| desire, by hardwiring sexua| energy into the spiritual circuitry. If they would teach this stuff as a pre-requisite to getting a marriage license... what a different world it would be.