Forgive me if I am rude...i was reading your past posts and you said you acquired HIV from a same sex experience...yet you had a girlfriend. Did she know about this? Also, if I may be so bold, were you topping or bottoming. According to what I have read bottoms get the virus more and that it is rarer for tops. I do not know a lot about this so please tell me if I do not ask teh questions correctly. I feel that I can ask because your posts mention total honesty.