I am 31 years old, My husband is 30 and we have been married for a year and together in total for over 3 years. Sex was fenomenal is the first 2 years and in the past year it went for a nose dive in quantity and quality.
We both had career changes and moved to another country so yeah there was some big stress involved in the past year. But in overall we can't complain at all. we are financially well off, we are both healthy, we don't have kids and it's not like we don't have time or $ to have a break and some fun.
But for reason my husband doesn't give much importance to sex anymore. I try to talk about it and he says it just stress of work and diet changing showing that he has low testerone. He went for a test and his testosterone levels showed normal.
when we have sex it last less than 10 minutes. no foreplay and he comes just too quickly. I try to initiate, I try to be understanding and not pressure him because I think it wont help but this situation has been dragging for almost a year now. I ask him if he still loves me of if there is someone else but he will say there no one. I trully believe if there was someone else in the picture I would know by now. My husband is a wonderful guy and he's not the sleazy type.
I hit the gym everyday, I am runner I not a nagger and I still turn men heads around in places I go, and I can' believe a 30 year old man is not interested in having sex with an attractive woman. I have tried to stimulate him but when he is on the mood he can't last more than 5 minutes. I haven't had proper sex for more than 6 months now and it is driving mad.
He is taking test supplements for about 4 months now but it has not changed anything. Can anyone shed a light on this? Is it more normal than I think it is? What Can I do to improve this situation? thanks in advance for all your comments!