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Re: Get help


Sexual orientation has nothing to do with domestic violence - it happens across the board, regardless of race, creed, cutlure, etc.

What I chose to do after my violent outburst was to contact the local domestic violence/abuse hotline, tell them EVERYTHING and ask for some guidance.  Additionally, the marriage ended at this point - something that was inevitable given the circumstances even before my reaction.

You would both benefit from helping yourselves, individually.  I would also imagine that remaining together, as a committed couple, would be a questionable idea at this time for you both.  Sorting out my personal issues is an imperative before I even consider entering into another partnership or intimate relationship.  From the words that you're using in your post, you are both engaged in a very unhealthy, unstable relationship, and it's not going to "get better," especially when there is a possible addiction issue present (alcohol, codependency, or otherwise). 

I ended my 12+-year contract of marriage because truth, honesty, trust, and everything that a healthy relationship should be only existed in appearance.   Was it painful for me?  Hell YEAH, it was!  Would the relationship have had a hope of normalcy if I had tried to make it work?  NOPE...it was broken even before the nuptials.  Sometimes, we are faced with ugly, painful, and heartrending decisions in order to heal our own souls. 

I wish you positive energies and brightest blessings.

 

 
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