On the other hand....

#21380,

I just went and read some of your old threads regarding this work situation that keeps repeating in your life.   Someone else said perhaps you ought to react by being nice and bringing cookies, or whatever.  I unwisely rejected that idea and suggested that may not work in a really tough crowd.  I sincerely apologize to the other poster and to you for my lapse in judgement.

Here is what I found you wrote to another poster for advice in a similar situation.  I have no words to describe what I think of this:

""Also if you are comfortable try to be friends with these people (it has to be a front) and beat to their game. Poison them with their own medicine. For example if there are two people who are against you but are not so close to each other, find out dirt about those two and tell each of them what the other is saying wrong about each other. They will not like it and eventually they will quit. But you must be two steps ahead of them and comfortable in doing so. Find out where they work and find some dirt on them and spread some ugly stuff about them at their work place. See how they like it. Make sure they do not know who is spreading rumors about them. They will hate it.

Fight back, dear, I know these kind of meanies.

Good luck.
21380""

I seriously think you need to examine your own heart.  Like breeds like.  Read up on the Law of Attraction.