Re: CONCERNED....someone wiser offer some advice here? Uniquity, Telman, etc?
I'll try. My nickname, by the time I was 6, was ww(worry wart).
And she is probably young and strong. But somehow recovering from gallbladder surgery (and I've never had any surgery, and I have a fear of knives, and didn't do so well just having babies) and going out drinking to celebrate ones birthday sounds....well, to put it simply, not conducive to healing.
HOWEVER, since I have never imbided (my mom lost all her children because she WAS an alcholic, I daresay she did not give up her alchohalism to have her babies, and it goes back generations; suffice it to say I wouldn't DARE drink (but
Depression seems very related) So I 'disqualify' myself from answering for those reasons.
But red flags go up. Putting off changes.
My own sis, who reads here, explained to me today she is too busy working to flush. Do you think I'm concerned? Yep. I understand, kind of.
But my "assignment" given to me by a very kind counselor, is to 'give up worrying'. About EVERYONE. Talk about an ingrained habit. So, at least I'm honest--I have a problem. I worry. I have not gone a single day yet without worrying. And as long as I'm confessing here--where is Invincible? I haven't seen her name lately, so guess what--I worry.
Any ideas? Is there a worry flush? Ah, to be young and strong and to know what I know now.
I'll (try very hard to) focus on MY flush. I've got to remember that "God's in control" and that "We all get to choose" and I've got to extend that right to choose, wisely or foolishly, to everyone.
Wish me luck with my flush.
pj