you want her to see you at your best. always my answer is the same for women and men when they need to know the truth about the visual: if at all possible, look your best. if wearing glasses puts you in the "6" category and without jumps you up to a "7.5"...use all the ammunition you can muster. maybe it's time for contacts, that's your call, but if dumping the glasses make you shine that much brighter, by all means. but...ah...don't drive. wouldn't want your first date to end up in the emergency room, four eyes. never ever forget this one detail from the mccainster...you never know when "the one" shows up. you can't predict it. i met my honey in the weight room at college when i wasn't even thinking about it. all i was focuesing on was pumping that next benchpress rep. and "boom"!!! there she was. don't overestimate chance meetings and become nutty every time you meet someone, but on the converse...never underestimate why you and she are where you are in time. keep it light, keep it pleasant. if what you say is true...i'd venture forth down that path...