Thank you both very much for your responses. The thread about the R.G cream was very interesting and the advice about the coconut oil also. Donna, I have some extra virgin coconut butter in my refridgerator, do you think that would be ok, or do I need to get some oil? Actually thinking about it, the butter is quite hard, so don't think they will be happy with me trying to spread that on them like a sandwich lol! I will look into the oil, but will also await some advice from Dr Bailey on diluting the R.G cream, hopefully I will be advised what to dilute it with and by how much. Fingers crossed either the coconut oil or RG cream will do the trick as I especially feel for my older daughter who has just started school and unfortunately often feels the need to touch herself there to relieve discomfort, not the best for her. Thank you again :)