You seem to think that you have control everything that your potential attacker does, or anyone else for that matter. You may have been lucky in your profession to be the only one not attacked, and the way you act may make you less of a target but you are putting the decision (and your fate) on the potential attacker to decide.
Recently a 12 year old girl was murdered when burglars broke into her home. They shot her and she drowned in her own blood. Did she create her attacker? Tell me exactly what that little girl did to create what happened to her. What did she do wrong and what would YOU have done that would have saved herself?