Tracey, did you notice what you last said?... You said that it "is useless to talk". It is the refusal to talk that causes violence and war.
"those are fighting words" is a famous expression that is actually the cause of fistfights, bar brawls, streetfights and all kinds of violent arguements that lead to riots and WARS. It is HUMAN NATURE for us to be impatient with each other and not want to tolerate the other person for what they have to say. If you disagree with what I said, then we should keep talking, in order to either, straighten out our differences or understand why we each feel differently and learn to tolerate those differences. WAR cannot be SINGLED OUT as the enemy, it is HUMAN NATURE (the NATURE of the human being) that causes WARS, riots, fights, etc. If only one person LOVES and the other doesn't, there will be intolerance which leads to disagreement which leads to fighting which leads to war. Anytime we get emotionally upset about an issue, it is because we are being impatient and intolerant (militant and factious). LET'S NOT STOP TALKING. We can disagree peacefully.